A chance to get back together with my ex, should i take it?

A month ago my ex broke up with me because he had no time for a serious relatioship. This weekend he invited me to come down to an event he is going to be taking part in. It’s a couple hours away from home and we are staying in a hotel. He says he wants to spend alot of time with me while we are down there. Alone in his hotel room…
If he wants to get back together with me, should i?

Yeah, if he has time now. And you arent going to break up for other obvious reasons. If you guys still really care about eachother, then i think it would be a good idea to try again. You dont want to miss out on something great. Just make sure that he isnt just using you. And that he actually wants you back.

7 Responses to “A chance to get back together with my ex, should i take it?”

  • Jessica m says:

    Don’t hook up if you guys arent together because that classifies as a booty call but if he wants to get together and you want to than go for it
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  • Shawn says:

    Do you see yourself 50 years from now in a loving managable undeniable moral standing marriage with this man?

    Answer seriously. And you will have your answer.
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  • GazzaGirl says:

    Before you answer his invitation, ask yourself this question;

    How will you feel if you guys spend a great weekend together, have sex, and then when it’s over, he doesn’t want to reconcile with you?

    I’m just saying that you may want to prepare yourself for the possibility that he is just taking this opportunity to experience intimacy with someone he is comfortable with, someone he knows wants him, and that he isn’t going to have to go through a whole song and dance to get into his hotel room.

    I’m not saying that that’s definitely what’s going to happen, but you should prepare yourself for it.
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  • star says:

    Yeah, if he has time now. And you arent going to break up for other obvious reasons. If you guys still really care about eachother, then i think it would be a good idea to try again. You dont want to miss out on something great. Just make sure that he isnt just using you. And that he actually wants you back.
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  • Josh C says:

    “Spending time together” might turn out to be just having sex. No relationship, no communication, nothing. It seems like that’s not what you want, so I would be very careful about staying in the hotel room with him.
    References :
    http://howdoigetmyexback.blogspot.com/

  • Shawn S says:

    Be careful jumping back in head long. It better take it slowly and establish bounderies if you want to get back together for the long term. Check out this blog for information about get back with your ex for the long haul.
    References :
    http://comebackmyex.blogspot.com/ or http://www.squidoo.com/ex-back-1

  • Relationships and cheating are a curious combination, with some couples in a position to transfer on fairly well after the devastation of an affair. Generally, though, the person who was dishonest on can’t recover from it. To stay within the relationship when there’s no belief there, and he or she fears that the other will cheat at any time, could be a depressing thing to do.

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